Humans always resist change; it’s an instinctive thing. But sometimes something happens that forces a natural change in the way we perceive and pursue our lives. It may be true love, a near-death experience, or just an awakening of one’s trapped soul through a poignant or traumatic experience. It may sound rather obnoxious, but the latter works well for the betterment of many lives. Are you happy? Are you living the life you’ve always dreamed of? If you were to die today, would you be contented with the life you’ve led? Most people would answer no to all of the above questions, not because they lead an incongruous or miserable life, but simply because we’ve been taught to aspire to more than what would satisfy our basic needs, with happiness promised to come along the way. As kids we were taught of humility, kindness, acceptance and appreciation. As we grew older, we learnt of the importance of dreams and higher aspirations, and that being happy translated into being better tha